Let go and simplify your holidays


 

Are you stressed about the holidays and getting “everything” done on time? Want to change it up this year and enjoy the holidays with as little stress as possible?

All right then, the first step is to let go of perfection.  You don’t have employees like Martha Stewart Inc. does.   I certainly don’t have the skills or time to decorate my home, wrap my gifts and create food that looks like a magazine photo. Done is the new perfect.

Next…let go of needing to do it all yourself.  It’s a feat we never seem to accomplish.  Just when we think we have done it all, something else needs to be done.  It doesn’t make you a hero if you do it all, but it will make you tired and crabby.  Ask for help from your family today.

Lastly…remove something from your “I do it because I think I should do it” list. Admit it, there is probably at least one task you do or event you attend because you think you should.  Have you heard the expression “don’t should on yourself?”  It’s good advice.

Who says you have to send Christmas cards?  Make 12 different kinds of cookies?  String lights outside while freezing your fingers?  Go to a Christmas performance you never enjoyed in the past?  Buy gifts for everyone you know?  Or, throw a big neighborhood party in December?  If you only do these activities because you feel guilty…stop.  Re-evaluate your priorities.  Ask you family for their input.  They may even offer to make the cookies or string the outdoor lights.

Relax, breath, prioritize and settle in for a season of love, abundance and joy.

What is one thing you are going to let go?  Please comment below.

 

 

Happy Thanksgiving


Happy Thanksgiving.  May your day be filled with family, food, and gratitude.

A few organizing tips for the season.

Pare down your Thanksgiving and fall decorations before storing them.  Especially if you didn’t use all of them or no longer like some of them.

Store large platters, gravy boat, and any special Thanksgiving dishes in your basement or a closet if you are short on space in your kitchen.

If your family is together at Thanksgiving, suggest choosing names out of a hat for your Christmas gift exchange instead of buying gifts for everyone.

What is one task or one event you can give up this holiday season to make the season more joy filled instead of stressful?  Maybe it’s Christmas cards, making a dozen different cookies, or attending every party you are invited to.

Thank you for reading!

5 Areas to Edit and Create Space as a Result


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

There are 5 key areas in most homes that become overstuffed and need regular editing or purging to keep them organized and to create space.  Editing on a regular basis will prevent you from out-growing your space.

1. Files:  Open your file drawers, glance at the files, look for the thickest files.  Pull them out, one at a time.  Pull old pamphlets, papers, or brochures from the file.  Look for paper that is taking up a lot of space (a large brochure) in the folder.  Can it be tossed or recycled?  Is it out of date?  Do you really need it or will you be able to find the information on the internet?  It will be much easier to file paperwork once you weed out the old papers.

2. Clothing:   Are you running out of room in your closet?   You may think you wear all the clothing in there but take a closer look.    Donate items that fit the following criteria:  too small, too large, not flattering, no longer in style or worn out.  Gather all the empty hangers, recycle the wire ones and put the empty hangers in one area of your closet.  If you  have too many, relocate the extras to your laundry room or front closet.  Now you can see what you own and have some breathing room in your closet.

3. Refrigerator:  Has your refrigerator become a black hole?  Food enters it and is never seen again?  Time to edit it’s contents.  Toss the expired items and wipe down all the surfaces.  Remember to go through all the bottles and jars in the door also.  A clean a healthy fridge, doesn’t that feel better?

4. Pantry:  Same as the refrigerator.  Toss the expired items.  Wipe down shelves.  Categorize food and label shelves.

5. Reading Material:  Are your bookshelves at maximum capacity?  Consider donating books you have read to a local library or shelter.  Be real with yourself, how likely is it that you will reread them?  Put away the odds and ends that have gravitated to the bookshelf.

Edit one of these areas each month and you find it easier to maintain organization and not out grow your space.

 What area are you going to edit this week?

 

photo by: Matt Hampel

5 Items to Purge from Your Pantry


If you have a pantry in your home that has become cluttered and out of control, it’s probably time for a pantry purge.  You will free up space for the important items and not have to search through clutter to find ingredients for dinner.

5 Items to Purge from Your Pantry

1. Expired food items:  Are the crackers stale, is the cereal soggy before adding milk?  Check the date on all packages, cans and spices.  Here is a helpful website called still tasty.

2. Appliances:  Consider letting go of small appliance you haven’t used within the last year.  They are taking up space that could be used for everyday items.  Another option is to store the appliances somewhere else in your home, even the basement.

3. Serving pieces:  When was the last time you used the crystal bowl?  How about that giant platter you don’t even like?  If you don’t use it or even like it, donate it.  You may even find some pieces you forgot you had.

4. Items that do not belong in a pantry:  I’ve seen some strange items in my client’s pantries during the last 10 years.  We’ve a good laugh about these unusual items: kid’s toys, clothing, camping equipment and wedding presents that have never left their boxes.  Put those items where they belong or donate.

5. Extra plastic or paper shopping bags:  It’s difficult to part with these bags isn’t it, but it’s time to be realistic.  How many do you really need?  Recycle the excess.

Once your pantry purge is completed you will know what you have, avoid duplicate food purchases and be able to find your ingredients when you need them.

Take a trash bag, recycle bag and donation box into your pantry now and start clearing it out.

What is the strangest item you found in your pantry?

How To Organize Your Home – Top 10 Tips


Cena Block is my guest blogger today.  Enjoy her tips!

The US population has spent the past 50 years in an endless pursuit of stuff as a means to save time and live more simply (see www.storyofstuff.com), but what most people have found is that they have packed themselves “in” rather than freed themselves with convenience.  If you are struggling with clutter in your home realize that getting organized is a means to an end. Whether your goal is to simplify, create space, reduce unwanted items, save time, have less stress, be happy, healthy, wealthy…. Whatever you wish, you must create space, clarity and alignment to make it happen.  If you are packed in… here are some helpful tips to kick start your action to let things go…

Tip 1 – A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words

Do papers end up on the counter? Does sports equipment clutter your garage entryway? Does it seem that clutter never stops? Take pictures from every angle in your cluttered room and view those pictures in another space.  Studies have shown that when you remove yourself from the actual cluttered space, you can be more objective in what you perceive. A picture will show you where trouble areas and log-jams exist in your home. Once you analyze what is not working, you can prioritize where to begin.

Tip 2 – Analyze Your Breakdowns

I introduce the Sane Spaces Dimensions TM to analyze clients’ disorganized state from different perspectives: space, systems, self habits, and the level of support you have.  Analyzing your organizing dilemmas using these dimensions will help you identify breakdowns and ultimately lead you to organizing solutions that will work and be most likely to stick.

Tip 3 – Create a Master Plan

NO successful business has ever thrived without a master plan, goals and regular adjustments. For you to successfully run a home business (and even more so if your home includes managing the details of others) you must have a master plan.  A master plan consists of a scheduling system (calendar), a task management system (daily action files) a communication system (phone & contacts) an information retrieval system (files) and a maintenance system (project list). When each of these systems are developed and maintained people feel much more in control of their space and can prioritize tasks more easily.

Tip 4 – Develop Schedules and Routines

If people didn’t benefit from routine, there would be none. Humans form habits around reliable and repeatable tasks. For all the tasks that you are required to repeatedly perform, consider “scheduling” them into a routine.  Tasks such as laundry, shopping, cleaning, dishes, and home maintenance are all regularly required to efficiently run a home. Consider “scheduling” time to actually complete each of these tasks on a reasonably cyclical basis.

Tip 5 – Create a Landing/Launch Pad

The National Association of Professional Organizers (NAPO) defines organized as “a space for everything and everything in its space.” I like to consider being organized as a state of being when you:

  1. Know what you have
  2. Have what you need
  3. Know where to find it when you need it

This definition works well when creating one of the keys to convenience for any busy person: A Landing or Launch Pad.  This area is set up near the most-used entrance in the home and should have a place for everything people carry in and out of the home: keys, purses, bags, backpacks, coats, umbrellas etc. Taking the time to redesign your entryway and finding the most reasonable solution to your particular needs will pay off in spades when you are in a rush out the door.

Tip 6 – Design a Paper Processing Center

The single most requested area where people ask for organizing assistance is with paper.  To address this concern, create an area where you can process your paper easily. Sort your incoming mail over your trash/shredder and dispose of anything that you do not need or have to take action on. For the items requiring action – determine what the next action step is (file, pay, call, schedule, etc.) – and then immediately ‘activate’ that paper by adding the item to a to do list – or placing it into an action file used to manage your tasks.

Tip 7 – Create an Action File

An Action File is a holding area for you to store papers that need action.  There is no right or wrong way to create an action file. An action file could be hanging folders, a sorting system, a vertical tray or whatever seems to work for you in your space. What is important is that each action be labeled with the required repeated task: file, read, pay, call. Some people chose to design a system cyclically around the way they do work: daily, weekly, or monthly. Different people chose different filing systems, and the key to success is to develop a simple system that best supports how and when you work.

Tip 8 – Create Zones Everywhere

The ‘zone’ concept was coined by Julie Morgenstern (Organizing from the Inside Out). She introduced what she referred to as the Kindergarten Concept – where a classroom has areas set aside for certain types of “play”. Building toys were together, play kitchen items were together – and everything was very easily put back in place at cleanup time. This concept is often used with clients as we work to keep like items together, and reduce the number of redundant storage spaces to simplify their home spaces.

Tip 9 – Function Before Form

When organizing, always think function before form – always ask “how will I use this item”?  Answering this question will help you determine an item’s function. Organizing items according to their function means placing them near where they will most likely be used.  For instance, it may be more desirable for you to have tissues tucked away in a cabinet in your kitchen, but when someone needs a tissue…. it’s much more convenient to have that box readily available (functional).  Your goal should be to find acceptable and lovely ways to store items functionally if you prefer clear surfaces.

Tip 10 – KISS

The age-old advice of keeping things simple is best received and supported by the organizing world.  Simple is defined as what enhances your life and your ability to do what you want to do.  In my business, when creating any solution to an organizing problem keeping it simple is always best. Don’t over think, over organize or over purchase solutions. If a system or solution takes more time than it is worth – try something new.
Remember that getting organized is not an event, it a process that reveals itself in layers. Following these tips will help you get started and get organized to make room for a life you love!

Do you have some tips you’d like to share? What are you favorite organizing ideas and techniques? PLEASE share them below:

Copyright 2012: Cena Block. Sane Spaces, LLC. Cena Block is the Mom-Preneur Clarity Catalyst, author of Getting It All Done, Time To Toss It, and creator of the Coaching Programs: AWAKE Manage Your Time To Love Your Life, ASPIRE To Get Organized & Sane, and Being AWESOME: Re-connecting, Rejuvenating and Re-launching Mom. Cena presents signature workshops and privately coaches mompreneurs and moms-on-pause to create sanity through managing their time, clearing their spaces, creating efficient systems, understanding themselves, and getting the support they need for their own success. Her Slice of Sanity eZine gives subscribers ideas and inspiration to get clear and in action in their businesses and start living their lives on purpose.

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Fall Maintenance Checklist Part 2: Indoor Tasks


Fall is a fun season with apple picking, corn mazes, pumpkin carving, and bon fires.  It’s also a time to prepare for winter.

I’ve put together an indoor home maintenance checklist for fall.

  • Clean carpets if needed.
  • Clean wood floors.
  • Change furnace filter.
  • Have furnace inspected and tuned up.
  • Have your chimney swept if you have a wood burning fireplace.
  • Stock up on wood for your fireplace.
  • Check smoke alarms and replace batteries.
  • Replace CO2 batteries, if necessary.
  • Switch out clothing for the season.
  • Clean winter outerwear and take inventory of items your kids have outgrown and need replacing.

Block off time each week to complete an item or two off this checklist.  Schedule time for fall fun also.  Click here for Part 1: outdoor fall checklist.

What is your favorite fall activity?

 

photo by: discus2_22

Fall Maintenance Checklist, Part 1: Outdoor Tasks


Fall is a beautiful time of year.  Colorful trees, cooler temps and apple pie!  It’s also time for certain maintenance chores if you own your home and live in the northern half of the U.S.

Here is a checklist to follow as you prepare for winter. 

  • Winterize sprinkler system, if applicable.
  • Bring in garden hoses and shut off water to outdoor faucets.
  • Tune up snow blower or find your snow shovels.
  • Winterize and store lawnmower.
  • Stock up on salt or ice melt.
  • Compost annual flowers and store flower pots.
  • Install storm windows.
  • Clean leaves out of gutters.
  • Rake leaves.
  • Clean and store or cover outdoor furniture.
  • Clean grill and cover.

Take out your calendar and block off a couple hours a week until you have the list complete, hopefully before winter:)

What is your favorite part of fall?

Closet organization for a client


Krystle Marks is a personal stylist who puts together flattering outfits for her clients with ease.  She started her full service personal styling business to help women feel beautiful.   Who doesn’t want that? 

I’m jealous of her talent.  Shopping for clothing completely overwhelms and frustrates me, especially now that my fashion savvy daughter is off at college!   When I first met Krystle she mentioned that her closet needed a bit of organization and SHE was feeling overwhelmed. 

We are perfect for each other:)  With our complimentary skills we decided to become each others client.  I was overjoyed to have a closet to organize (I LOVE closets) and I would receive some desperately needed fashion advice!

Here are some ” before” photos.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Krystle’s closet was very full.  The first step of the organizing process is to decide what to keep and what to save.  She did a fine job making the decision to let go of clothing that no longer fit or no longer wore.  Look at all the bags of clothing she decided to donate or re-sell!

Everything was sorted and categorized into groups: pants, shirts, shoes, workout clothing, dresses, ect.  Her husband’s clothing was just re-categorized; we left the purging for him to do.  I removed all the empty hangers and stored her favorites in one location in the closet.  The wire hangers were taken to the dry cleaners for re-use.

We discussed supplies she needed to purchase: plastic boxes, wood clamp-style pant hangers, 3M Command Hooks, and a scarf hanger.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

She wanted to finish the project on her own.  When she finished, I was thrilled to receive these photos.  She did an amazing job, don’t you think so?

Baseball caps are hung on the wall using Command Hooks by 3M.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nonslip scarf hanger.

Krystle and I will be presenting a fun workshop together on November 14th.    She will teach personal styling and I will provide closet organization tips.  Watch for more information in my November newsletter (please subscribe here).

Are you inspired?  What area will you organize?

A client makes an unconventional decision


Deferred decisions or the lack of decisions tend to cause disorganization, clutter and chaos!  Think about it, if you don’t make a decision about whether to keep something, decide where to put things, decide on commitments/activities to participate in, decide to maintain organization, or decide to ask for help you aren’t going to change your circumstances.

I’d like to share a client story with you about decisions.  This client was a virtual client of mine which means I coached her over the phone.  She’s a lovely client, she took my advice and also thought of her own solutions.

Let’s call this client Laverne.  Laverne had piles and piles of dirty dishes so I suggested she tackle them 10 minutes each day until she was caught up.  We can do anything for 10 minutes, right?

During our next phone coaching session I asked Laverne about her dishes and her progress.  She said, “Jill they are gone!”  I told Laverne that I was so happy and proud of her and asked how she did it.  Her response……”I threw them out!”

Wow, what a decision!  Unconventional isn’t it?  You know what, she made a decision and moved on.  Now Laverne has one plate, one glass, and a couple spoons, knives and forks from Goodwill.  Laverne decided to keep it simple and never face a pile of dirty dishes again.

Way to go Laverne!  This solution isn’t for everyone but bottom line, she made a decision and moved on.

What are going to decide to do today?  Please comment.  If you decided to ask for help I’d love to have a conversation with you.  608-575-7467

Organizing Memories


Everyone has mementos from the past.  If you have children you may have even more mementos from their past.

We sorted through our daughter’s mementos this summer, before she headed off to college for her freshman year.

Unfortunately we didn’t eliminate many memories from her box but we enjoyed looking through them.

Tips for organizing memories:

  • If your mementos are scattered throughout your home and need a place of their own simply, purchase a sturdy container to hold them.  A container has a limited capacity and will prevent you from keeping too much (unless you buy another container:).
  • Every person in your household should have their own memory box.  Label it with their name.
  • Store the boxes under beds or on a closet shelf.  You should have easy access to this box so you can add new memories without much effort.
  • Keep things that are truly special.  If you keep everything, nothing is important.   Write the date and child’s name on their artwork, letters, cards, and papers.
  • When the box is full, take a few minutes to sort and eliminate the items that you no longer feel strongly attached to.  You should be able to close the box and have room for a few more memories.

My clients usually find items they want to keep as memories.  While sorting stuff with one client, she asked me to add many items to her memory container.  At the end of our session she looked at the pile and said to me “I didn’t know I had so much to remember!”

Do you have too many memories?

 

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